Time for an update.

Not a whole lot has happened since my last update.... well not significant things at least. I met with that attorney and was pleasantly surprised that since Matt's retirement company is Fidelity I don't have to take him to court! Fidelity will accept the QDRO paperwork from either party! WOOHOO!!!! I am so happy that I don't have to be branded as the mean ex-wife!! I can just continue to let him be lazy and still get things done so that I really never have to deal with him ever again! It is REALLY nice!! Too bad the two attorneys that I met with before this guy didn't know that. So I went on their website, used their forms and am filing the paperwork at the courthouse on Tuesday after work!!

oh. Me and Tommy broke up as well. It was not a fun break-up, as they seldom ever are, but I think we will make it better as friends. I don't think that either of us were very happy. So far we haven't talked much, but I hope that we will continue to be friends after our initial separation period.

The fun exciting things that have happened.... I turned 30 on the 12th. I went geocaching using 4x4 and chainsaws and then in Golden Gate Park. Cassie got over her really bad eye infection. Ya. That's about it.

Hope you all are having fun and engaging times!

MUAH!

Today's news since I am updating stuff...

I figured that I should write more about what is going in life instead of just putting up old pics....

So now that the new year is here I am preparing to move forward with life. I am still fighting the divorce battle and while the divorce is final the settlement is not yet. It is unfortunate since I really do not want to play the mean card and send him to jail for failure to comply with court orders, but since he will not get things done I am left with little other options. So I am calling another attorney on Tuesday since I really didn't like the one I was using and this one is cheaper- and since Matt will most likely have to pay for my attorney too I am really not trying to screw him over. Hopefully I will be able to fill out and file all the papers I need to file within the next week and get this all taken care of before I move.

I also have cycled through another 2 sets of roommates and am having another one come by the house today to meet with Tommy and see the room while I am at work. She is employed and so that is another step up from the roommates that I have had. Although they move in with jobs and then quit so I guess that is not too much of a consolation for me. I am going to charge first and last months rent this time though. That way I won't get screwed when they all decide to bail without notice.

Well, I need to get back to work. I hope you all have a wonderful new year and enjoy your continued time off!

Fair Pics and Fireworks 2009!

So the theme of the fair had something to do with candy and bugs.... or somthin like that. Any way there were lots of history on candy and tons of giant insects....

Here is Candy Mountain... with a door that wouldn't open and

cotton candy smells coming from inside. What a tease.

Chris getting up close and personal with the govenator....

mmmm..... candy.....

LUCY!!!! You have some splainin to do!!!!

This thing was kinda cool... but it went backwards and is not a cool as the one at Disneyland

Signs that Chris ignored......

gonna get a tummy ache eating forbidden beans!

and another one that he ignored.....

Oh ya... he's a double dipper...

Did I forget to mention that there were giant birds to eat the giant bugs too?

Of course there has to be for creature control....

Techie insects at that...

No more marching to get out of the rain for these guys.

Chris defending his woman!

My newest boyfriend...

Ignoring signs again....

Yummy!! My bloomin onion! It is fair tradition!

Fair fireworks! They didn't get cancelled because of me!!

More fireworks

Awwww..... so sweet!

Lots of fun at the fair with great friends! Funny how those things go hand in hand so much in my life. I love you all so much guys!

Pics from MC Hammer- Finally.

Brian is so proud of the shirt that he caught!! Congrats!!!

Before the concert began

2

Legit

2 Quit!

Me and Rachel after the concert!

Ok- so there are the pics of the concert and my next post will be of all of us at the fair.... and as a bonus I will do it now so ya'll don's have to wait 3 months to see them!